Matthew 9:21 KJV For she said within herself, If I may but touch his garment, I shall be whole.
You are how you are today because of what you told yourself in the past. One way to develop resilience in love is to develop a healthy self-talk. That, nobody else can do for you. “You have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens” (Louise Hay).
Bonus quote: Ann Bradford — ‘Tell the negative committee that meets inside your head to sit down and shut up.’