Galatians 1:15-16 NIVBut when God, who set me apart from my mother’s womb and called me by his grace, was pleased to reveal his Son in me so that I might preach him among the Gentiles, my immediate response was not to consult any human being.
“Life is the most difficult exam. Many people fail because they try to copy others. Not realizing that everyone has a different question paper.” The thing about life is that every individual has their own reality and worldview; even siblings in the same family may not have the same experiences with their parents. Don’t force yourself to be like others regardless if their journey seem similar to yours. Seeking God concerning your destiny is the surest way to not missing it.